Hey guys, so I
had a friend come visit me some days ago and you know girls as usual we got
into talking about guys. She told me that she recently just broke up with her
boyfriend (African) and she started becoming close to this guy friend (not
African) of hers. The friend invited her to his house. She ended up staying
over for the night and he made her breakfast in bed the next morning. She was
so shocked as no guy has ever done that for her. This got me thinking; one of
the common most remarks African ladies make about African men is that they aren’t
romantic whereas other men are known for their excessive romantic gestures.
Personally, I
don’t think whether or not a guy is romantic depends on the person’s skin colour.
Yes, our African men are known to have this “I’m a hard guy” persona. In fact
it is almost considered unnatural for guys to do things like open doors, send
flowers or show affection publicly. I
think most of this is due to our upbringings, if we are honest with ourselves most
of our parents aren’t romantic towards each other. This is what most guys see
and learn from. That is not to say we don't have romantic african men, of course we do but getting them is like finding a needle in a haystack. This is the 21st century, most ladies want a man
who is ready to fly over the moon for them. There is absolutely nothing wrong
with a man expressing himself and no, that doesn’t make him soft. In fact that
makes him special, as he is man enough to do what’s required of him. So my dear
readers I leave you with this question, are African men as romantic as others?

All Africa men are romantic it takes the right lady for them to bring that quality out.
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